Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Men and Microwave Meals

Do not get caught in the habit of eating microwave meals - you know the ready-made, pop in the oven for a split second kind - you might just lose your skill in cooking – Enjoying road kill is a pick up and go type activity and whilst some frown at the thought we all have done so in the past. The problem occurs when you get so used to the ease of the operation that you forget how to hunt effectively. Then you might be faced with hunger and more likely disappointment when that desire of yours becomes seemingly unattainable. But it's not - the hunter is simply unskilled - too used to the easier option.

Men were meant to hunt, to track their prey, study their habits, exploit their weaknesses, and eventually to catch or kill their target according to their will. The skills so required for achieving the task were always meant to be current and well practiced. So it must be with women whom, like the prey, learn from previous encounters with hunters too unskilled to be successful. Such prey adapts and changes habits, and the new hunt begins. 

From my observations there are too many men who will only engage women who show them excessive or undue interest. Who go for what they can get and not what they want. Men whose will does not result in action to achieve it. Watch them. They do not value what they have for it came at too low a price in effort. And it's likely that in the long run that union will not work. So in my world men shouldn't eat too many microwave meals, and they may just end up happier.

The last word first

For most of us, when all's said and done you're going to be just fine. Think about it. In high school you thought that life was about to end everytime the moon appeared but you were fine after that. And when you, well maybe not you specifically, had a run in with the law - that eventually passed and you were fine. Note I'm saying fine and not good. Fine is given. And fine allows you to continue. You shall go through life and die just fine. That heartbreak you experienced recently, in the past or right now? You were fine after that weren't you - you will be fine won't you, and you will move on to the next experience.

One of my points here is that too many people work too hard on trying to achieve whats given. In a difficult situation they allocate their skill and resources to ensuring they are fine which would rather be applied at coming out better. Dont get caught up with whats going on - you'll be fine. When we panic we are wired to act in the best and often quickest way to come out the situation fine. I say learn to overcome the instinct and you'll find how many times you come out better than fine from situations...

Fine...